Without closure, we remain trapped in an eddy of self-defeating stasis.
Doors need to be effectively closed to allow fresh, new openings. Closure is a finality; it is not an act of self-deceit or avoidance. We frequently leave a small space to retreat into the past, because however damaging events may have been, what we knew feels comfortable relative to the unknown that stretches before us. We often choose to keep drama alive because it brings attention, but that never allows us to move towards the best our lives can be.
Closure comes when we finally accept that the pay-off for being a victim is far less than the benefits that come from having the courage to choose to be MORE! Closure is the preserve of those who expect the best, who never doubt their ability to manifest dreams by enlisting the power of their super-conscious mind.
When we love ourselves enough to finally identify what needs closure and move decisively from a past that has already served its purpose, we discover awesome flow and are carried beneficially in the direction of our dreams. Consciousness breeds the awareness of what needs closure to allow us to live purposefully in an adventure that always provides perfect opportunities for personal evolution.
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I really like this post, I still have something of which I need to find closure, however I do accept that it will come in it's own time and not before. Or it is all about it being a new bad habit which I need to release, in that probably yes and yikes o_O
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